story published on the site in November 2006:
http://www.ilsensodellavita.tv/
anocra inspection in the archive section of the same site
Stefania, 35, Lucca
Our story begins 13 years ago, after our marriage. Time passes and the desire for a child is natural, almost predictable. Time passes and nothing happens. Time passes and people's questions are becoming more frequent. Time passes and begin testing and treatment have no effect. Time passes and the desire turns, takes a different appearance, it has become the face and willingness to accept, we think we love big. We are preparing adoption as the years flow like sand through his fingers. In 2002, we get the ability to take one or two children in 2003 to an organization we rely on for help in adopting internationally and in 2004 we do see a little tiny face in a photo. We are in 2006 and we have not yet been able to touch her face ... Although we had opened our arms to love far we can not embrace that creature. Why? Ask Ente, the Commission for International Adoptions, foreign countries, the bureaucracy, the law. We, as billions of families waiting, we will not only give a family to children who do not have it. For me, for us, this is the meaning of life ... but in the meantime the clock is ticking ... "
Another publication on the website: http://adozioni.interfree.it/
We received a message that is both a lament and an outlet. We gladly publish it because it represents the mood of many prospective adoptive parents who for various reasons are unable to crown their desire for a child. Often there's one step away from goal and then his son longed for long remain a mirage.
Lilli are a future adoptive mother of a child in India.
I have often wondered what is the good of the highly praised by local children and why parents are always treated selfish because they want a child.
I have often wondered why parents rely institutions recognized as authorized by CAI to carry out their activities in foreign countries, then when there are some problems, they say that the responsibility lies solely with the institutions with which they have begun to collaborate .
I wondered why your claim that a successful conclusion the adoption in a given period of time, then the wait never ends, as for us we are waiting two and a half years we can start to pick up the child.
I wondered why in every country where the institution has a contact who should work on paper with the institution itself, then as in my case, tell us that he can not enter the institution, can not learn, etc. ..
I wonder how can a couple who is in difficulties, in real difficulty. Who should pay, what person, organization, leadership, organization, association.
Who helps couples who have problems with their 'practices'?
Why couples are expected to change as a solution entity.
should not be the institution to have to organize themselves to help this couple?
Not the good of the child, the ultimate concern of the work of bodies? What
is good?
Let the baby alive as long as possible in the schools or give the child a chance to get out of a state of institutionalization and offer you the chance to have a family? Because I
parents are forced by law to make me "turn inside out" by social workers, psychologists, judges, doctors and the entity has no responsibility when things go wrong?
Because I parent I have to prepare so many documents, to sign up sheets sheets, commitments, affidavits, decisions, and then match when no one is responsible "thing" does not go your way? Why
no one is responsible for the pain caused to those who wants nothing more than a home and love to a child?
Lilli
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